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48 ~ Small Talk (Life Updates, Savannah's Wedding, Boise Bars)

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Hello, happy Tuesday. We just stay back to fold and balanced. I'm Natalie and I'm Sidney and we are so excited that you are tuning in this week. We hope that you do every week. Such a fun time. We've got a fun little Chit Chat, Small Talk Episode for you guys today, a little catch up. Lot's been going on lately and we haven't fully explained it. Also, this is chance and I feel like we haven't really gotten to talk to each other. Yeah, like, I don't feel like we really know. It's bad either, Chinna. Yeah, this is for selfish reasons. Just kidding. Yes, so you also get to being and our catch up time so fun. But first, as always, we will kick things off with our three two one. Welcome to three two one. The stands for three really good things that happened the last week, to not so good things and one thing we are manifesting moving forward. So my first three, which I'm sure we will talk a lot more about during the episode, is m trip to Idaho and just that whole like Spana's wedding and everything in general with that week vibes. It was just so much fun, and we'll get into detail of our itinerary and that episode probably that it was. It was just Super Fun and it was nice to get to hang with it because like not going to get to for like forever and like and like my other friends that were there too, I'm probably going to see them for even longer. Yeah, it's just nice to have like a last Hurrah and it's fun. Like we went to the Bachelorette Party and everything to which was Super Fun, and just like the wedding itself. Like I said, I hadn't really been to a wedding before and it was like very nice, very well done, very fun. And the night after the wedding was Super Fun and it's the night when I know of the wedding have yeah, yeah, I phrase that wrong, but yeah, some times. I'm sure we'll get into it more later, but yeah, Super Fun. My second three is that I'm trying to enjoy my last DAYS IN UTAH. It's, I I would say, like well, okay, so I'm trying to give myself my actual last days like strictly pretty much just for packing and cleaning, but like the few days before that, which was the last few days, I would like trying to like see people like one last time and like for some reason, now that I'm moving, all my friends got pools. So like come hang at my pool and I'm like, Oh my God, that's so fun. I wish I could. We could have done this more, but at least time that's fun. So I've been like doing that and I like had all my friends come eat at the straw. I can say now. I guess guys should do a big group feel sure us. I worked at the cheesecake factory. Such a meme, but yeah, I can. There's lots of tea about it. But my friends came and ate there because I was like we best use my discount before it's gone. So we did and that was fun. Yeah, and then, related to that, my last three is that I had in my last day at work at she's cake. Oh my goodness, it's like wild ride. It's like kind of bitter sweet, honestly, because I worked there for like all of college. It's like I've debated putting it as a two, but I know it is a good thing, so it's a three. My second to last shift was like super great, like in terms of making money. Super stressful, though, and I like hated myself all that one. Not even myself, which is like life and life go and situations the whole time. But my last if shift was like pretty chill and pretty, you know, the usual. So yeah, yeah, I am a little sad. Like my there's one manager left who's there from when I started and she wasn't working yesterday, which was my last day,...

...and I wanted to like say by to her and like end with her, and I also feel like she would have like made a bigger deal, like because and then I'm just like new and but like, I don't know, like back in the day, like when it was people's last days and they worked there a while, they would like Singford. She's a jolly good fellow. It's like get them and she's cake and like, I don't know, and a pan or some of them, which I don't like need that. It just like would have been nice like some recognition that I was a good employee was there for a long time. But it's fine. I'd also I told my room and I'd bring back a cheesecake and I didn't. So Dad it couldn't believe. I thought I was gonna get a free one. So I'd never asked for one and that I didn't anyway, it's yeah, my three. Yeah, my first day is that everyone in Virtin city's amazing and I obviously expressed many worries and many concerns on the pod about like these people and who I was going to be living with and literally spending every minute with, and I was worried. But everyone's so nice and cool and fun and I think I'm gonna have a really good time. So definitely that everyone here is really awesome. And then my second three is obviously that the wedding was amazing. Yeah, well, we'll talk more details after our three. Two one, but it was. It was fun and I feel like there was just like so much lead up that it. Like I was like in denial, but I was like, Oh my God, like this is actually happening, and now like I kind of feels like a dream, like I'm like did it actually, like, did I actually sing? Did I actually like do my little toast? Like I feel like it did nothing happen, but obviously did. So it's like the video real that is actually over. Yeah, yeah, but you know great. Yes, Fana maxts are on their honeymoon now. They're currently in Maui's so I'm sure they're having the best time and it's just fun. So yeah, that's my second three. And then my last three is that my birthday is in five days from now and I've some friends coming up in three days from now to celebrate and I'm just really excited and they're going to come stay in my cabin with me and I am just like, I don't know, I'm like proud of what I'm doing right now and it's cool, like I literally graduate at the BFA and how to job doing exactly what I studied not even a month later, like that's incredible. So I'm excited for them to come and to see it and check it out. So, yeah, those are your too. My first two is so silly. I need to pull up a picture first it I could just stand up and show you right now, but I have an awful, well, many awful bug bites. But do you see this? Oh Yeah, my bug bites like swell up, like I don't know if I'm allergic under to what? Yeah, I thought yours to see you can really hopefully some of you guys can relate. Well, not hopefully, not, because it sucks, but I bet some of you can. Yeah, I was like showing one of my friends yesterday too, and they were like, Oh, yeah, the same thing happens to me. Just like yeah, sucks, and they're all like so itchy and I'm like trying to notit this shit. It's them, and there's literally all over me, like my back, my legs, my like feet, my arms, like everywhere. So like it like it's like sucks to like wear clothes, even like sleeping was I'm comfortable. Like just sucks. And it's obviously not like a tractive either that I have these huge, I would say, like there with the size of like they're a little bigger than a tennis ball. I don't want to say it tennis ball, but like a little bigger than a tens ball. Dona. Yeah, yeah, donut. Yeah, good one. I don't know. I got a doughnut side, which is stupid. So yeah, that's my that's just my first two, because I it's so annoying. And then my second two is packing. I am hate packing and obviously it's it is I am moving in like a couple days, so I it's really needs to be happening and I've been putting it off because partially because I hate it and...

...partially because I'm like, well, I'm not moving for like so long, and but now I like it's literally like tomorrow, like it's not actually more, but it like literally isn't like I need to like process that. My mom literally comes tomorrow, so I want her to, you know, feel like I did a lot before she got here and I did today, like I told myself, because I knew Monday was going to be my last day of work and I'm gets in Wednesday night. So I was like Tuesday and Wednesday I'm like all day I'm going to be packing and just like grinding, and I did that for like a good chunk of the day today. It's just I'm also like, as I'm packing, my Gosh, I don't know how I'm gonna fill this in my car or like even in like my suitcases. Just like I don't know. So it's just very stressful. It'll all work out, though, I know, and can I ship things, but like I don't know. I'm just so's just stressful. And, like I said, I bought those like the vacuum bags like make things smaller, but like it's not doing that much honestly. Like the bag said it would reduce it by eighty percent, but that's a lie. I think it did maybe by like twenty percent. Maybe. Yeah, I know. So I think it like depends on what's in their example picture it was like pillows most like obviously those like squish. Yeah, I just like put all my clothes in them and like they're not squishing that much. So maybe if I was putting pillows, but I'm probably just not gonna bring my pillows, so that yeah, but yeah, so it's just it's just a restful but I'm sure it'll all come together and like looking at my living room right now to it's just all so stressful. But yeah, it'll be fine. Yeah, just, yeah, I'm packing suck because I know some people like it. I don't know how you do, because I hate it. My sister loves it. I think my sister loves IT FOR OTHER PEOPLE. Like when my sister knew my mom and I were just the two of us were packing my whole apartment, she was like, Oh, I wish I was there because she like is good at it. But like I think when it's like her stuff it's not as fun. Yeah, like I think when it's my stuff then she enjoys it. So right for her. Honestly, makes sense. Like I, yeah, thing friends of more than I like moving. Yeah, totally, totally. Yeah, how about you? Yeah, my first too, and I hate that the first like the main thing. We're going to talk about the wedding in this too, but we'll talk about the great things later. But I'll just say that being the sister of the bride can be hard, and none of this has anything to do with my sister herself. Like, Savanna was amazing and a great bride and it was totally fun, but I feel like I had lots of people looking at me waiting for me to make a mistake and waiting for me to like just slightly do something that could make it look like I'm trying to steal a spolite from my sister. And my sister asked me to sing in the main of honor. Always makes a toast, and I were Cheetah three times a week. But for some reason I felt like people were just making me to be the bad guy for no reason, and I had a conversation with Savannah and I was like am I like? I was like am I overstepping? Like I'm sorry, and she was like absolutely not, like you're totally putting me first, like and Savannah was like empathetic toward, you know, towards what I was going through and dealing with, but it was just like it sucked to be stressed about making sure that I was doing everything right. Like I was like literally standing in the wedding next to Savannah. I was like worried that like if I were to like slightly move my arm that it would be like Ah, that jerks in me like her rude sister like has to take the spotlight and I'd feel like no, my arms were shaking. That bokay was so heavy. So, like it was just it was hard, it was it was rough. But aside, the point, and my second two is that my schedule here this fast couple days are like really, absolutely ridiculous and I'm working non equity currently. So like, Guy, really, you know that I signed a...

...contract, like I can't not do it, and it is like it does make sense. So basically we're rehearsing from nine to noon and then we have a lunch break from twelve to one and then we rehearse again from typically one to six, or yeah, one to six, and then we normally have a dinner break from like six to seven ish and then we rehearse again from seven to ten. So it is a lot of rehearsal and it's really exhausting and like my voice is tired. My brain is so tired. I'm like my brain cannot have anything else I d like. It's like like we have to put a two and a half hour show together in six days and like it's gonna work out, like it's gonna be okay, but I'm so tired and like I can't even watch TV in my bed. Like I get in my bed and I immediately go to sleep. Like last night I try to watch tick tock because I was like maybe this would be like kind of fun that. I was like no, you need to sleep right now, and I ad did and it was fine. But it's just like really absolutely ridiculous. How how much worked these but it's it's obviously fun and I'm grateful to the Max, but it's a lot. Yeah, what are you madiesting? I'm just manifesting that it's not just I'm manifesting that my time in New Jersey is good. I don't really know what's gonna come of it. I mean I'm anticipating my time living in New Jersey will not be more than two months. I'm think a month honestly, which I kind of would rather it be two months because it's one last month of New York rent I'm paying and less stressed. But at the same time I'm also eager to move to New York and have independence like I've had the last four years. I mean, not that I have no independence when I live at my parents, but you know, it's just so different and having your own space. So, yeah, I don't know what it will bring, but I am going to start. I just opened up bookings for VIP kids, so I am going to be starting that when I'm there. I'm a little nervous and, like mom's ever, I'm going to be like walking around while I'm like teaching these kids English, like but it's not like seven am because, like they're in beaging. So I don't know how that's gonna go, but I'm yeah, yeah, we're just manifesting good vibes for the time in New Jersey and I'm already excited because already a bunch of my high school friends have been there and they've been like waiting for me to come and do fun things. So that's good and I'm I'm grateful I have them waiting there for me, but who knows what it will bring. So we're manifesting good things. I'm manifesting that. This weekend is Super Fun and awesome. We open the show, my friends come and I turned twenty two, so fun and I hope everything goes well. And I am just six. I don't know, I am excited, so I hope everything's good. Yeah, it'll facebook. Hey, I'm bill. He'd really post a lot about the wedding and not very many. Like silly thing, because obviously, like this wedding was a really huge deal for my family. So I'll just read one of the wedding posts that I think is, I don't know, the most like my dad wording, like I was explaining to some people here. I was like no, my dad, like the way he talks is so weird, like he like uses spectacular in sentences, like I was like, nobody says like wows in a year. Hair looks really excellent today, except for my dad, and I think this post recognizes that. So it says it's Fanim Max's wedding was everything we hoped for, as they start their journey together as husband and wife. They are darling perfect for each other and have exceptional future, have an exceptional future of ahead of them. And then Phoe says it. Yeah, the photo credit to...

...the girls, but it's just so weird that darling perfect each other and have an exceptional future and I just think it's silly. Yeah, it is silly. Yeah, it is very much bill wording. Yeah, it's funny. I was watching Bachelorette last night, new episode, and a lot of those guys. I was watching friends and like they use like such silly vocab, like like build. Sometimes like they're like it's funny. I am like suffocating or like I don't even know, like they just like the way like they describe each other. What did he say? Oh, he was like, I don't I want to. Like. Oh, he was like I want to exterminate him about another guy. Like what? So weird, so random, but I've been like noticing silly vote cab lightly. So bill does have silly vocam. What's funny? He does exterminly love silly vocab, because we do. Yeah, I guess that brings us into a content update. Yeah, yeah, even I have I have nothing. I have not been able to watch a single thing. I have not listened to any music. I actually I did listen to sour again while I was in the shower because I was like, I guess I should play something and I haven't found anything new, so I listened to that. But like literally I haven't watched anything. So that's funny. I mentioned say meant to say this last week, but there is a new maroon five album. Yes, and I love Mar and five. Actually, they're probably like my favorite like band, like they had to a group like that. She runs my favorite artist. But yeah, I've could be my favorite band and it's called Jordi to Luk. Okay, fun little. That album has like flowers on it, like a Sheeta, perhaps a Cheetah. Perhaps I like it. I still I need to like listen again to like figure out what my favorite song is on it. Yeah, yeah, it's a BOP. But yeah, I've also been I'm caught up on the Bachelorette, but it's just kind of been like kind of man like, been like silly boy drama. Yeah, it's like been unnecessary. Did you see the week before is episode? I've only seen the first, the first one. All I am there's been three so far. So there's only yeah, some some drama happened in the like last row ceremony, because I won't tell you the full details, but basically, like one of the guys, when he was accepting his rose, he was like, by the way, and me and all the other guys don't like this one guy, so you shouldn't give him a rose tonight if you were planning on it. Yeah, and so she like after the rose ceremony and yeah, he should. What do I do? And she came back and, you know, she made her choice, but it was like, Whoa, that was buzz long. But he did it after she gave him his rose. So yeah, and I was like standing there accepting his rose. That's like say, by the way, it was going down. Yeah, that's so cringy. Yeah, it was whack, but yeah, and then there's this one guy last week. He was like he's really cute, but then he, like my friends, I was watching my after he was like being in not goodness, good person. We were like, well, he's less cute now. Basically, he would like admitted that when he went on the bachelor at he like thought about becoming the Bachelor and like wanted like cloud. Oh my God, like he like yeah, he admitted like the cloud part to Katie, but he hasn't said that he wants to be the bachelor yet to her. But like, I'm sure, honestly, probably the same thing's gonna happen at this next rose ceremony. They're all gonna be like, by the way, this guy, don't give him a rose. I don't know that's gonna become a norm or what's happening, but yeah, what already? So I know it's on that, yeah, truly truly past. But yeah, those are...

...the main things. And I like started handmaids tale kind of. HMM. I just like needed something to watch at the gym and I was like on Hulu and I've already been caught up on the bull type so I was like I need to God, come on. Said Yeah, and it's so sad because like literally for the last month I like haven't really wanted to like binge any new shows because I'm like, well, I need to save stuff. I was trying to save stuff for when I'm here. If I was like so bored that I needed stuff to watch, and now I'm my God, I can't. What's the like the the necessary stuff, like bull tight, the bull type and the bachelor are like, oh Geez, like always better. Yeah, sorry, sorry, yeah, both type. I mean you're not missing too much, but obviously you are, because we love it. But like it's the best. Like I can't even remember what happened in the last episode, but I did watch it a week ago, so that's okay. Okay. Well, let's talk more about this wedding. Yeah, yeah, party, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's a chronological so styeah. So I was on Tuesday, June fifteen and the wedding was Thursday, so it was two days before and I was made of honor its tech, like it's my job to plan the Bachelorat so that was kind of fun. And at the like at the bridal shower, you know, a couple weeks before I was like so overwhelmed because I felt like I couldn't like host and take pictures and make sure I was doing everything's Finn I needed me to do and like say hello to people, and so I was like God, I wish someone was here to help me. And so I was like, Savanna, what do you think about Natalie coming about Solarette, so she can help do other things since then. I was like sure, I don't get so now I got to come to Bachelor at, which was fun, and so we did. It's called the Boise Buzz bike and it's one of those bikes where you're like on a big like probably the size of a car, there's like a table and like a bunch of stools with bikes on it and then there's one guy like drives it, and that was fun. Yeah, Brady, Brady, and he took us around two three different bars downtown. And previously to this trip, like I hadn't really ever been to Boisey bars because I turned twenty one during covid and so and I lived in Salt Lake. So when would I have gone? So it was fun to like check those out and, you know, see, yea. Yeah, yeah, I was Super Fun and that whole like bike situation is so much fun. So, yeah, Fun playlist that we were Jamm into. Yeah, yeah, we were jammed into that playlist and we yeah, we were, you know, drinking, obviously. So that place is fun. Yeah, and yeah, it's just it's just super fun. I was a little word going into it that everyone knew each other, but then I realized that that's not how that works. Like they savannah from different ways. So it wasn't like I was like totally like this awkward like Sydney spend. It was fun and we all vibed and yeah, and then we like got dinner and then we went to this place called borden brush. Right, HMM. Yeah, and they're like a chain. Actually looked in. There's actually one in my town in Neat. Yeah, I know they're they're all nor yeah. Yeah, but we all basically made like a different wood project. Mine was like a tray with like a cute little flower design and I'm going to use it as a sharkooty aboard and just like if I ever give someone breakfast in bed, that's what use and I took the thing give you breakfast in bed with. Yeah, right, I'm really M yeah, I want to tell him about why you made yeah, I made this, like you Idaho signed, because I realized that like I didn't have any Idaho decor and I obviously am not going to live in Idaho ever again, probably. So I was like Oh, like,...

...that's kind of sweet. Till I have something, it's easy and go on the wall. And it was fun because you got to stay in the wood. So I made mine read, which was coming slowly as like kind of ready Pinky, and I like was kind of nervous because obviously, like most wood stains are like browns and grays and like charcoal colored, but I was just like, Oh, I not like try the red. It was funny because I was sitting next to my mom, who just came to the board and brushed part of it and I was like, I think I'm going to do red and my mom was like, I think I might do read too, and so it's funny that my mom and I were both like kind of hesitant, but like both did it and we're happy to do it. So that was funny. Yeah, bout it was fun. And then that night after Bachelorette we went to the bar with me of my besties from high school and one of their partners and it was just like so silly and so fun and it was another bar like I've always wanted to go to as a child, like as always been there and downtown Eagle, but I obviously I've never had the opportunity to go. So we went and it was like so fun. It was just like funny and two of them are both getting their masters at University of Michigan in the fall and so it was fun to like see them and catch up with them. And then Christianna has been like my best friends since I was in seventh grade and so it's always good to see her and catch up and yeah, it's just fun, so fun. Yeah, can we mention that they were explored? Yeah, sure, yeah, yeah, that was that was a silly aspect. Yeah, so the two friends who were in Christiana that said hadn't seen a while. Last time she saw them they were like fully narrow, Still Mormon. Yeah, we were out a bar, so obviously they're anymore. Yeah, yeah, it was funny because, like, I obviously like I'm still connected to them on social media and stuff. So I have known the both of that. Both of them had left the church and like Danielle is on twitter, so we like are, you know, on twitter together a lot and like, so it's Christiana, so we all like comment on each other stuff that way. But it was fun to, I don't know, figure it out and learn about their their experiences leaving, and it was just stilly and fun. So I had a great time line. Then the next day was the rehearsal dinner and our other friends that came to the wedding got there, and I'll just say the rehearsal dinner was the main event that I just felt out of place at and was just like not feeling like I could win. I just felt really trapped and just felt like no matter what, I like I my grandma wanted to go get food and she was like, Oh, will you take me, but like she was gonna be first and so, like Shet, like she wanted me to go with her to get food and it was going to be first in line and I was like, my God, if I get food before Savannah Max, like I'm gonna look like I'm the worst, but my grandma's here asking me to like I was like Oh, like, I was just I was lame and it was hard and it's fine, I survived. I survived, I'm fine. Yeah, so that that happened and then the next day was the wedding and that was so fun. It. Yeah, it's just like totally surreal and it was so fun to see everybody and there was a photo booth and I D Jay and a dance floor and alive painter and big Mr and Mrs Letters and my like swim team coaches were there. Like it was fun to like see everybody and my cousin Jake, came into town for it and he his wife and too darling little babies couldn't come, so he was just their solo. And then his brother, Dalton, my other cousin, is a baseball players, so he couldn't come. So it was just like cut and then my aunt son also couldn't come because of his job, and so cousin wise, on my mom's out of the family, it was just jake and I and like normally your cousins are like who...

...you hang out with that weddings, you know, and I was in the wedding party and so I think jake was like thanks it like, you know, so sit with that these people, which is fine whatever. He's old, he's thirty two, so it was fine. Buzzles, yeah, the wedding. But the wedding was just it was so fun. Anything else you want to say about the wedding? Yeah, Um, not too much. I want to hear, though, about like your morning. If the wedding like getting ready in a morning? Yeah, like, yeah, makeup and the hair al it's like yeah, it was fun. Yeah, yeah, we got there at ten. The ceremony started at five, so we had seven hours, but we started taking pictures at thirty, yea, so we had to be ready by then. So we used TSG artistry, which are a hair and makeup company in Boise and they're all really cute and really nice and they came in and did everything and they basically just like the makeup girl was like, you know, how Glam do you want to be? And so then she would just be like how glim do you want your makeup to be? And I was like full Glam, but just under Savannah a little bit like hamp be more Glam than her and I can't be the same, but just a little under, and she was like okay, work, like I got it, and I was like things, so I was good. And then hair wise, do you know, the hair girls just like what do you want? So two girls in the bridal party got up dudes, and then two girls got like these this cute little like French braid, half of half down. It just like ended up that we had like a hair buddy, like there were two to two, and so I did like my most iconic, typical hairstyle that I always do where you like take like, you know, maybe two inches back worth of hair from your the front of your forehead and you wrap it around and put it down in the little ponytails, so it makes like a head band out of your hair and then you just like let the rest of your hair go over and it just like keeps out of your face. But you sold your hair down, but it's not as like sweet as half of half down looks like. I like the concepts of half of half down, but it just like makes me look too wholesome, and so that's like a little more fun. And you had to do it and you like have a little bump, and so then I had the rest of it curled and it was just like cute and fun. Yeah, yeah, and then we sped out. gave us these like cute little duffel bags with our names on them and like had so much stuff and I'm spend as just, as I've said, the best gift give forever. So she just like went all out and that was really sweet. And then we took getting ready pictures. So getting ready pictures don't actually mean like while you're getting ready, they mean after you're ready. In your robe still, so it's just like pre dress. So we like had hair and makeup done but we were still in our little bridesmaid robes. And then we had subway I one point and then we started taking pictures. So savanna and Max chose to do the first look, where you do like a first look picture. So then instead of having the first look be like as she's walking down the aisle, just because then it saves time taking pictures and you don't have to get all your pictures in between the ceremony and their reception. And so they did the first look and then Savannah did a first look with my dad, which is all. It's just a really sweet idea. And then we took bridal party pictures and that was really fun that we haven't gotten them all back yet. Obviously the photographer was awesome and like sense Vana Max like fifteen or so of just them like the night of so that she could like post them the next day, which was nice, but I haven't seen any that I'm in so I'm anxious to see. Yeah, and then we were ready to go and got lined up and, you know, did did it all. It was it was exciting. Yeah, it was crazy. And then I got to sign the marriage license. You have to have two witnesses that sign it. So I signed it, which was fun. I will say that as the maid of honor, it is a real thing that like you have to help her pee in between things. So like and the it was a really small so like Savan, and I like went in there and I guess like what...

...you're supposed to do, like what they tell people, is you're supposed to sit backwards on the toilet so that like your train or whatever. You don't like try to get it that way. So you just like lift up the front and have the maid of honor like gold around and then you sit down facing that way. But it's then I was like I don't want to do that. So I was like cool, I love that. So you picked up, I picked it all up, and then she pied and then it was fine. That's funny. Yeah, that is the real thing I have to do. I don't think of other silly made about everything. Movie don't talk about and yeah, bridesmaids is like my favorite movie, so I'm like, yeah, it was. It was funny. I was fun having like little jobs to do, like to make sure SPANNA's overnight. Duffel bag makes it in the getaway car. But, like you've to remember, during the reception you're like, I'm having a good time and I had to go move ITR UFFEL bag, but whatever, that's one of it. That's why you I did give a toist. Yes, it went well, it was fun. Yeah, wedding was great. And then that night, so we were planning on going to the bars, like me, Natalie, Brooke, Amanda and Chai E, the other girls that also came. We like had always planned that and I was also like, Oh, I wish I could see my family again. Yeah, besides at this wedding. And then my family was like, Oh, where are we going to? I like to each other, and then Jake was like, oh, ask said what she wants to do, and they were like what are we doing? And I was like Oh, you guys now. And so then we were like, we don't know where to go, and Amanda's Dad had given her some recommendations, but then like my like second cousin, Uncle Guy, was like, oh, yeah, go to Hump inhands, and so jake was like, okay, cool, Humpanhanna's it is. So then you guys went back to Amanda's House and got changed. Yeah, I got in. I just got straight into a newber in my bridesmaid dress and I luckily had brought other shoes, but they were like little green, ugly blue plops, like they weren't fun. And we just went straight to hump and Hannah's and it was a wild night. It was very silly. Oh my God, cousin Cam Party. Yeah, I had fireball for the first time ever. I survived all of college without ever having fireball and now he goes so around a fireball shops. It was insane, like it was. It was next level. So, so very fun. I'm really glad it happened, like I yeah, so grateful. No, yeah, and I don't like I shouldn't say I don't remember, but like I guess at one point back and I had there's like a photo booth and one of the bars and I remember we like did the I just like put it in my phone wallet and then I like, you know, I love them, and a literally the next morning. And so a couple days ago I was like what is in my phone wall like and then I was like, Oh my God, like this like photopoof thing. It's fine, and put it on my like little picture collage. Funny, that is funny. Yeah, it's sweet. I have the photo booth of our friends. Good. Yeah, that's so funny. But, yeah, so silly. I will say fireball was actually not as bad as I thought it would be. I thought it was going to be spicy. For some reason it was wasn't spicy. I don't know why. I guess because the word fire, but it was like sweet. So if you're if you're like me and you're weird and you were scared to try, you could try it. But I will say my stomach hated me the next morning. We also had Tequila and vodka that night, so just like and wine at the wedding. So yeah, there was a fun little concoction going on. So bad, so bad. We sit and I both like drove alone for hours the next day and I don't know about you, but that was like the worst car I'd like. I like felt so sick the whole time. I was like you need to make it. I was like you're gonna make it. Like there was all this times that were like pull over if you're drowsy,...

...and I was like shut up, but it wasn't even like that I was drowsy as much as it was just like my stomach was killing wrecked. Yeah, so, so silly. Obviously we both made it though, so that's, yeah, good, but so stilly. Yeah, it was a a fun night. We made some new friends, so the Times. Yeah, yeah, I was really fun and I guess like when Sid was, you know, at the rehearsal dinner and getting ready for the wedding, I hung out with broke, Amanda and Chayi, which was nice that they were all there and we could all hang out and we did some. Brooke ended up making her own dress, but it's kind of funny actually, is the funny store. She kept having the issues with it in regard that like when she finished it the first time, right after she finished it, she spilt gatorade like right on the BOOB and it stained and we're like oh no, and like we'd like Trat all these things to get the staining out. Eventually we got staying out. Next morning. It's all good to go there ironing it and then the iron burnt the dress and said we were like oh no. So then we went to a fabric store and like found the same fabric and she like quickly like ripped off the old one so the new one together and made it okay for the wedding. But it was so funny because just ended up being and, you know, a fun thing to do after the fabric store and so silly. We also watched for some reason the last months I've watched crazy rich Asians three times, like and I've never suggested. I mean I like the bytime keeps happening. It just like keeps being on or people are like, let's watch this, and I don't say no because I like the movie, like I'm down to watch it, but it's funny. It's pretty funny. So any way, that's silly. But yeah, that's the my Idaho recap. You want to talk a little bit about what Montana has been like? Yeah, well, basically, I'll like so I'm in Virginia City, Montana, and I'm currently working at the Virginia City Opera House and we call ourselves the Virginia City players, and it's it's a town of two hundred people, but two hundredzero tourists come throughout the summer. So it feels really busy all the time, like there's people everywhere and there's like two bars, but they're both fun and they're both cool and we all have our own cabins and we, like I said, we rehearse a lot and we are opening our first play. It's called seven keys to bald pate and it's a George Cohan play, which he's a very acclaim to play right. So if you are familiar, then you'll know. So that opens on Friday and then we do a Vaudeville show after the melodrama and I'm singing I can cook too, from on the town, which we know is is a back pocket song. So that's nice and the town's fun. Like literally, the first night I was here we went to like I was hungry because I like had driven all day and went straight into rehearsal, like I got here at like seven and they were like, Oh yeah, we're rehearsnifinale like come in, and I was like cool, so that I like walked over them like started and it was like hungry, like I hadn't eaten anything, you know, and, like I said, like I don't eat that many snacks while I drive, so I was hungry and tired and like if he you know, and so then I'm we finished her soul and they were like Oh, so sonny, like nice to meet you, and I was like thanks, like I'm hungry, and they were like Oh yeah, like let's go, we're going to go to the bar, like you should come, like let's go get food, and so we went and we met this girl there who was getting married the next day in Virginia City, and she was like you guys have to come, like come crash my wedding. You guys are so fun, and we were lining okay, and so the next night, after we finished...

...rehearsal, we went to her wedding reception and it was like wondering how you went to a wedding. I was so excued. Possibly like five miles, like literally down the street that like we live on. We just like walked on this street and then there's like this really pretty good Zebo and like, I don't know, space that you can have a wedding at. And so we got there and there was an open bar and a dance floor and they were playing loo. Like we were like okay, like let's go, and so she likes saw us and was like, Oh my God, I'm so glad you guys are here, like this is so funny. So that was just like fun and silly and I feel like we all like kind of bonded got to know each other that night. Thought good. Yeah, but all the people are really cool and like there's nobody that I couldn't like, you know, have lunch with and like talk to, which is cool. Yeah, it's hot. It's like in the s which like obviously it's hot everywhere pretty much right now, but like without a seat anywhere like kind of sucks. Like I had have to leave my fan on during recording this, so sorry if you can hear the whole time, but like, if I don't like this little space will just turn into flames. There's bugs everywhere. Good, I'll share my my bug spray that I really recommend if you're ever living in a place that has bugs everywhere. Yeah, called ranks and it's a bug barrier, but like you could also just like sprayed on the bug and it'll kill it and it will like make sure no more bugs get in from that same spot. So, like literally right before this, I was going to plug my computer in and I saw there was a bee inside my cabin and if you know me, I don't do well with bees and they're inside. Oh No, Oh, I my bug barrier drowned the bee in it, and then straight around the windowlet and it's all okay. Around the I have a queen's eyes bed. You can walk everywhere. I have not touched my car since I got here that night, which is nice. So I don't have to pay for gas. Yeah, I'm like, no, no major complaints. I we get. I don't know if I've talked about the food situation at all, but we get free dinner every night pretty much, which is really amazing. So the fur other than the night I got here, obviously I bought dinner, but because I got there after dinner. So, but the next three nights we had into law that's made for us, and then we had pulled porks, pulled pork sandwhich is made for us, and then we had keys the next night and then on Tuesday through Fridays the Virginia City cafe gives us for dinner, and so my friend mark and I went got Caesar Salads today from there and they were super good. So like we're eating well Nice, pretty cheap, I'm having a good time. It's pretty just like crazy that it's actually happening, but yeah, rustic, crazy fellows, rustics like this, like if I feel like I'm really sitting in this right now, is like kind of insane. You know it is. Your wife is good. Yeah, thank God, I was nervous. You're lucky. Yeah, I will say you do seem seems like you hear me a little bit later if you normally do, but that's fine. Ever, we expect that. Yeah, yeah, your minds me of like news anchors when I like back to you and then they like pause. So today that's fine. Amazing. Well, my selling so fun. Amazing. Well, thanks for listening you, guys. This was fun to catch up with you and Natalie and I'm just so glad that bolden balanced is gonna always be a...

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